People often struggle to get rid of old clothing. Whether they’re sentimentally significant or you’re worried you’ll need them as soon as you throw it away, getting rid of old stuff can be hard. However, it’s clarifying, and refreshing, and allows more room for new or updated things, hopefully elevating your life. Interestingly there are several reasons for the struggle. Here’s a brief explanation and some items to get rid of asap.

Why It’s Hard to Get rid of Old clothes

Firstly, the most common reason for people to hold onto old clothing is because they feel guilty. The guilt of wasting money on something hardly worn, or the guilt of wasting a perfectly good article of clothing. Perhaps the item was gifted to them and there’s a sentimental attachment. Either way, holding onto it actually prolongs the unpleasant feelings and guilt. However, the money has already been spent and isn’t coming back so keeping those old items is a great way to perpetuate your guilt.

Instead, try donating old clothing if it’s still in good condition. As a result, you’ll feel better and more fulfilled. Meanwhile, you’ll make a positive contribution to someone else’s life.

Dress for Your Body Type Right Now

Another reason that people might hold onto old clothing for far too long is because of their weight. As we age, we go through weight and hormone fluctuations which means old clothing may no longer fit or look flattering. However, it’s not uncommon to hold onto the hope they’ll one day fit again. Sadly, this has a detrimental impact on your mental health. It creates negative feelings that reinforce depression regarding your weight and creates extra clutter which can cause a feeling of frustration or being overwhelmed.

Although there are many reasons for not letting go of old clothing, doing so can be freeing and have a positive effect on many aspects of your life. Here are 10 of the most common items found in closets that it’s time to let go of.

Letting Go of What Doesn’t Fit

As previously mentioned, one reason people hang onto old clothing is the hope that it might fit. Therefore, the first suggestion for old clothing to let go of is unsurprisingly, clothing that doesn’t fit. It’s not good for your mental health and takes up unnecessary space. Your confidence and closet will thank you.

2. Keeping Clothing “Just in Case”

The next suggested item to get rid of is anything that you have “just in case” of a special event or occasion. Often these go out of style and by the time you’re ready to wear them, you’ll likely be in the market for something more trendy.

3. Mismatched Clothing

This one probably doesn’t require much explanation but just in case, get rid of mismatched clothing because it doesn’t look aesthetically pleasing or professional. Rather it can look loud, messy, and poorly thought out. Instead, buy clothing in colors that compliment each other so you can mix and match your wardrobe without looking messy or too contrasting.

4. Clothing that You’re Tired of

While some pieces are timeless, if you’re unmotivated to wear them then it’s probably time to let them go. Fortunately, you can donate them so someone else can enjoy the outfit if they’re still in good condition.

5. Something that was a gift

It’s hard to let go of things that were given to us by people we love. It’s nice to be thought of and those items are reminders that people are thinking of us. However, precious moments are far more valuable and only take up space in our brains and hearts. As such, you can hold onto cherished relationships with memories rather than tangible items like clothing, which take up space and cause clutter.

6. Something from the past or future

While some styles come back around, holding onto things that you used to wear because you love them or think you might wear them in the future is another cause for clutter in closets and homes. Often, they sit in the back of our closets for months or years, becoming forgotten until it’s time to move. At this point, you’ll likely be looking to downsize to eliminate some hassle anyway.

7. Bridesmaids Dresses

Sadly, these are costly and generally only worn once. As a result, getting rid of old bridesmaids dresses can feel like a waste of money. Additionally, they represent big days for people we love. However, like gifted items, the relationships and moments spent together are far more valuable and meaningful than the dresses themselves.

8. Stretched Clothing

Over time, clothing becomes worn and stretched out. As a result, it no longer fits properly and is unflattering but getting rid of it will clear up space in your home and leave you feeling surprisingly refreshed.

9. Broken or uncomfortable clothing

Although it’s hard to let go of your favorite pieces, they can become worn down over time and are no longer useful. Therefore, if anything in your wardrobe is there “because you love it, even though you never wear it,” it’s probably time to let go. This also applies to shoes that are unbearably painful or clothing that is itchy or makes it hard to breathe.

10. Extra “Throw Away” Clothing

While some professions allow for the use of cheap, stained, or unpresentable clothing, like a painter, gardener, or teacher, in most cases you’ll feel better about your wardrobe if it’s not all “lazy day clothes.” T-shirts, comfortable yoga pants, and so on., are great to have around for unexpected messes or a day of lounging at home but consider adding some more sophisticated pieces to your wardrobe and reduce the “throw-away” outfits to 2-3 at most.

It’s time to refresh your wardrobe and get rid of old clothing, which is tough, especially when items hold sentimental significance. However, there’s some good news. Giving to others will not only free up space in your home but it will give you a sense of internal fulfillment and happiness. Here are some places to consider dropping off your old clothing.

Donate Old Clothing

If clothing, or linens, are in good shape, you can do a few things with them. Firstly, battered women’s shelters help women and children escape dangerous situations and many times, they have to leave their homes with little time to pack their belongings. As such, they have to start over, relying on the help of donations from the shelters. You’ll have to check with your local shelter to see what they accept and don’t but here are some generally accepted items:

• Luggage
• Professional Attire
• Warm Jackets and Gloves
• Blankets
• Pots and Pans
• Jeans
• Children’s Clothing and Accessories

Secondly, pet shelters can use old blankets and sweaters to warm animals in the winter, while mismatched, stained, or damaged clothing can be used as rags to clean up spills and messes or dry the animals off during the wet season.

Repurpose or Recycle Items in Poor Shape

Thirdly, damaged shoes, purses, accessories, or other items of clothing can be sent to some fashion brands to be repurposed. For instance, Madewell has a program, recycling old jeans for insulation for Habitat for Humanity.

Lastly, if you’re struggling to let go of the things that hold sentimental importance and are crafty, you can use them to create new pieces or make a quilt.

Betty Walsh, 82, was attacked outside the Best Kebab and Fish Bar in London. Her attacker punched her to the floor and stabbed her. Twenty-year-old Ali Abucar Ali stepped in to try to help her. But the attacker fatally stabbed the young man. When the ambulance arrived, paramedics rushed Walsh to the hospital and pronounced Ali dead on the scene.

The attacker was Norris Henry, 37. Police charged him with the murder of Ali and the attempted murder of Walsh. Despite her serious wounds, they were not life-threatening. Ali, who was described as “the most caring, humble, funniest young man,” was a hero who saved her life. [1]

The Tragedy of Ali Abucar Ali

According to Walsh’s family, she is off of the “critical list” after undergoing a kidney operation. They’d even talked to her after she woke up from the procedure. She had the wherewithal to ask about the football score. However, it took some time for her to leave the hospital.

Bridget, Betty’s eldest daughter, praised Ali. He had challenged the man attacking the grandmother and tried to help her. She called him a “hardworking, good lad,” who had recently earned a scholarship. He was also a coach for younger basketball players and well-respected and beloved by his community. His mother was comforting Betty’s family members before the police told her that her son died from the attack.

‘’I heard about how the boy went to help the old lady from a friend,” a local resident commented. “He was a hero. What he did was so honorable, and it is such a shame he died.’’

 

“The Rock of Her Family”

Walsh is affectionately known as “Betty Boo” by her friends. She has 10 grandchildren, 12 great-grandchildren, and she is a great-great-grandmother. As Bridget said,

“She was lively and fit… She worked in four pubs and worked really hard. Sadly, her husband died more than 30 years ago so she brought us all up by herself and was the rock of the family.

“This will probably have shaken her up quite a lot. She didn’t realize she had been punched and didn’t realize she had been stabbed until someone came out to help her. Ali went up and asked what all the commotion was about, challenged her attacker, and tried to help her. What happened to him next was a tragedy. 

“…Last night I got back from work and was told ‘mum’s been stabbed.’ I was so scared and in complete shock. I am just glad she is alive. We just want to thank the police and all the neighbors who helped our mum. They were there instantly and kept us informed. They are heroes. We are praying our mum makes a full and speedy recovery.”

Ali’s family preferred not to comment when approached by the press. But Bridget said, “I knew him and his mother. They are a very good family. His mother had rushed to comfort me as soon as she heard about what happened to mum. Before the police phoned her and told her the devastating news that her son had so sadly been stabbed. Ali was a really hardworking, good lad who had recently won a scholarship, we think it was to play basketball.” [2]

“He Truly is a Hero”

Ali’s family created a GoFunMe page where many donors already helped them complete their £100,000 goal. “We lost a dear brother, the most caring, humble, funniest young man. Don’t have a single memory of him without seeing his amazing smile,” the family wrote.

The comments are full of people wishing their condolences to the family, from friends and strangers.

“Ali was the most happy, loving, and friendly Coach I’ve met in my life. No matter how bad of a day you were having, meeting him always made it that much better. Ali, you are a hero and always will be. Thank you for making this world a better place,” wrote Charlie Crabtree.

Debbie Lonnen wrote, “I didn’t know Ali, but I was so touched by his courage and selflessness. He truly is a hero and will forever be remembered.” [3]

When a loved one dies, they leave a gaping hole behind. That void cannot be filled but as time passes, the mourners learn how to live with it. A sudden loss is even more wrenching because there was no warning and no opportunity for any kind of closure. We think we have all the time in the world for amends until that moment is ripped away. Lori grieved deeply for her son, filled with past regrets. But then a strange incident gave her the reason to keep moving on.

Jonah Goes Missing

First, Lori lost her husband. They had been in love since college and Lori couldn’t imagine life without him. But their son, Jonah, was only five years old at the time and he struggled to understand what was going on. Lori forced herself to be strong for his sake.

Eventually, her faked strength developed into something more substantial. She still missed her husband terribly, but as time passed, she got more energy. She was able to enjoy life again. Jonah became her whole world and she was determined to be the best mother possible. This mission became extraordinarily difficult when Jonah entered his teenage years.

Like most teenagers, Jonah became moody and distant. He no longer confided in Lori and he got angry when she invaded his space. It was like he became a new person and Lori struggled to parent this version of Jonah. But she hoped he would adjust as he matured and they would become close again then. However, the distance only grew as time went on.

One afternoon, Lori cooked Jonah’s favorite dinner and planned to initiate a meaningful talk with him. But the hours drew by and Jonah didn’t return from school. She called his friends in case he went to their houses, but all of them didn’t know where he was. One of them mentioned they planned to play video games together but Jonah hasn’t logged into his online account. Lori went upstairs and peeked into Jonah’s room, something he had prohibited her from doing. She hoped he would miraculously appear in front of his video game console and yell at her to get out of his room. But he didn’t appear.

“Hi, Mom”

Finally, Lori called the police to file a missing person report. But her conversation was interrupted by a knock at the door. Two cops were already there. After sitting her down, they informed Lori that Jonah was hit by a drunk driver when he was crossing the street, just a few blocks from their home.

Lori felt like she was trapped in a bad dream. It didn’t feel real, not when she identified the body at the hospital, not during the funeral. Only when his coffin was laid in the earth did reality hit her. Her son was in that box. She cried uncontrollably. Despite all of her efforts to be a good mother, she had failed him.

Now alone in an empty house, Lori fell into a depression. She slept through the day and lay awake at night, the horror of her son’s death replaying over and over in her mind. She could barely get out of bed. But a week later she was awoken early one morning by a voice calling, “Hi, mom.” It sounded like Jonah.

She shot out of bed, calling for him. But there was a pause. Then she heard it again, coming from Jonah’s bedroom. She entered for the first time in a long while and a haunted feeling fell over her. Then she heard the voice again say, “Hi, mom,” but it didn’t sound like her son anymore.

Hiding behind the door was a gray parrot in a cage, turning its head quizzically at her. She had no idea the bird was here. When she leaned down to look at it more closely, she noticed a note with a childish scrawl with a few notes on how to care for the parrot and a phone number for more questions.

Why Did Denny Sell His Parrot?

She called several times until a young boy picked up. She asked about the parrot and he remembered it immediately. He said his name was Denny and the parrot used to be his but he traded it with Jonah for his old toys. They were in good condition and Denny sold the toys for money.

He went on to explain that he met Jonah in the park a while ago. He had liked the parrot and asked Denny all about it. The two chatted for a while and Denny offered to trade it. Lori remembered that Jonah had begged for a pet but they couldn’t afford it at the time. Jonah didn’t take the refusal well but she had no idea he had attained a bird on his own. But now, she only felt happy he got the pet he wanted, even for a little bit.

But she asked Denny why he was selling his parrot, and Denny admitted he needed money for food. He had escaped from his abusive foster parents, taking the parrot they had bought him to show off for the childcare inspectors. He’d been living on the streets ever since and he begged Lori not to tell his foster parents where he was. She promised him she wouldn’t.

Her Second Son

Lori offered to return the parrot and Denny agreed. He had missed his feathery friend. He came by her house later that afternoon, and Lori cooked him a large lunch. As they ate, Denny explained more about his life, and with his permission, she called social services to report his abusive foster parents. When the social worker asked for her address to pick him up, Denny began to panic that he’d have to go back to that awful home. Immediately, Lori insisted that he would stay by her house during the investigation. She had to give her address for the social worker to look over her house and sign some paperwork, and the visit made Denny extremely anxious. He was terrified to be taken away, but Lori assured him that would not happen.

So Denny became a guest, living in Jonah’s old room. He didn’t fully trust Lori, but he felt better having met her son. By the time the investigation was over, Denny and Lori had created a bond. Instead of turning him into the social service, she adopted him. While she still mourned for Jonah deeply, she felt like he had brought Denny to her, that he knew that Denny belonged in their family.

A recent viral story has left the internet buzzing after one man expressed his astonishment at a commonly overlooked fact about the female anatomy. The revelation, which centered on a natural bodily function, has sparked a conversation about misconceptions regarding women’s health and anatomy.

With numerous people chiming in online, it’s clear that many men (and some women) are still learning the basics about how the female body works. In this article, we explore the man’s surprising discovery, dive into the science behind it, and share insights from medical professionals to help clear up any confusion.

The Surprising Discovery About Vaginal Discharge And Female Anatomy

The man’s surprise came after he learned that vaginal discharge can sometimes cause underwear to discolor. This discovery was revealed when he noticed that some women’s underwear appeared bleached in certain areas and assumed it was due to a laundry mishap.

However, he soon found out that the bleaching effect was caused by the natural pH levels of vaginal discharge. A fact that left him completely stunned. “I had no idea that something like this could happen,” he said, according to Tyla. “It’s something I never thought about, but it’s amazing how the body works.”

Understanding Vaginal Discharge and Its Role

Vaginal discharge is a perfectly normal part of the female reproductive system. It serves as a way to keep the vagina clean and free from infections. The discharge helps maintain the vagina’s acidic environment, which acts as a barrier against harmful bacteria. Its composition varies throughout the menstrual cycle, sometimes thickening, becoming more watery, or changing in color.

According to the Cleveland Clinic, this is a sign of a healthy reproductive system. “Discharge is the body’s way of keeping things clean down there,” says Dr. Jennifer Miles, a gynecologist. “The vaginal environment needs to stay slightly acidic to fend off infections.”

Why Does Vaginal Discharge Bleach Underwear?

The bleaching effect that shocked the man occurs because of the discharge’s natural acidity. The vagina maintains a pH level that is generally between 3.8 and 4.5, which is slightly more acidic than water. This acidity helps prevent infections, but it can also lead to a bleaching effect when it comes into prolonged contact with fabric.

Healthline explains that when vaginal discharge comes into contact with underwear, the acidity may break down the dye in the fabric over time. This can leave behind white or faded spots, which is completely normal and nothing to worry about.

Common Misconceptions About Vaginal Discharge

Many people are unaware of these types of biological facts, and this man’s reaction is not uncommon. There is a lot of misinformation about vaginal health. Many still believe that vaginal discharge is a sign of uncleanliness when in reality, it is a healthy, necessary function of the body. “This is one of the biggest misconceptions,” Dr. Miles points out. “Discharge often gets a bad rap, but it’s protecting the vagina. The acidity helps prevent harmful bacteria from causing infections.”

The Importance of Educating Men on Female Anatomy

The viral story highlights the ongoing need for better education about female anatomy, particularly for men who may be unfamiliar with the workings of the female body. Many online commented that they were also unaware of this fact and appreciated the newfound knowledge.

“It’s important that we normalize these conversations,” says relationship and sex educator Lisa Williams. “The more men understand about women’s bodies, the better they can support the women in their lives and break down unnecessary stigmas.”

What to Expect From Normal Discharge

Vaginal discharge can vary in color, texture, and amount throughout a woman’s menstrual cycle. These changes are usually a reflection of hormonal shifts. Clear or white discharge is typical during ovulation, while thicker, creamier discharge can occur later in the cycle.

However, the Cleveland Clinic warns that any discharge accompanied by itching, foul odor, or unusual color (such as green or gray) could signal an infection and should be checked out by a healthcare provider.

How Women Can Care for Their Vaginal Health

Women need to take care of their vaginal health, and one of the simplest ways to do so is by wearing breathable, cotton underwear and avoiding scented products that could disrupt the natural pH balance. “Women should avoid douching and over-washing,” says Dr. Miles. “The vagina is self-cleaning, and excessive washing can lead to infections.” She also advises checking in with a gynecologist regularly and being aware of any changes in discharge that may indicate a health issue.

A Wake-Up Call for More Open Conversations

This story has become a wake-up call for the internet, pushing for more openness and education about female anatomy. While many women are aware of how their bodies function, it’s clear that some men still have a lot to learn. The viral post was followed by many women sharing their experiences. One woman commented, “I always wondered if I was the only one whose underwear looked like that!”

 

What Men Can Learn From This Viral Moment

For men, this moment can be an opportunity to learn more about the female body and dismantle any preconceived notions. Understanding basic facts about anatomy not only helps foster healthy relationships but also supports a more empathetic view of women’s health. “It’s not just about knowing the biology,” says Lisa Williams. “It’s about being aware and respectful of what women go through, which starts with education.”

The Road Ahead: Reducing the Stigma

As this conversation continues to unfold, the hope is that more men will take an interest in understanding women’s health issues and work to reduce the stigma surrounding them. When people are informed, they can make better choices for themselves and their partners. In the words of one woman responding to the viral post: “It’s great that more men are learning this. It’s just a small thing, but it’s part of a bigger conversation that’s long overdue.”

Even in today’s modern world with state-of-the-art hospitals and advanced medicine, pregnancy and childbirth come with a certain amount of risk. For this reason, every time a baby is born healthy with no complications it is truly a miracle. Sometimes, however, things don’t go perfectly, and babies are born with health issues that the doctors can’t explain. This can be extremely scary and heartbreaking for the child’s parents, who are not only afraid for the health of their baby, but are unsure whether they’ll be able to provide everything that child will need as they grow up. Vanessa Mcleod and her husband know exactly what that feels like, having experienced the same pain, sadness, and fear after they learned that their unborn baby girl was going to be born with no arms and no hands.

 

A Baby Girl with No Arms and No Hands

When Vanessa Mcleod received a phone call from her midwife after a routine ultrasound, she knew something was terribly, horribly wrong. Her midwife had told her over the phone that there were “significant findings” in the ultrasound, that she should bring her husband with her to the appointment, and that she should find someone to look after her two-year-old daughter.

Her husband was out of town for work, so instead her mother and father came to the appointment with her. Vanessa cried the entire way, fearing the worst. All she could think was that she did not want to lose her baby.

Upon reviewing the scan of her unborn child, she learned there was a possibility of a cleft lip, that one of her baby’s femurs was curved and shorter than the other, that the doctors had some concerns with her heart, and that she was missing both of her forearms and hands.

That final blow was more than the young mother could take.

 

“This felt like a punch to the gut. It stole my breath. It keeled me over and the sobs tore out of me, and visions of my perfect little baby shattered,” said Mcleod [1].

Her biggest concern had been that her pregnancy wasn’t viable, or that there was something wrong that would make it impossible for her baby to survive- that she would give birth to her little girl only to lose her shortly after. The thought of her being born without arms or hands had never even crossed her mind.

Grieving

Over the next few months, Vanessa went through a grieving process as she attempted to process this new information. She felt denial, guilt, anger, and sadness. To make matters worse, doctors, perinatologists, medical geneticists, and genetics counselors had very few answers for the shaken family.

All she hoped for were answers- a reason why this was happening, a possible solution.

“But the appointments were severely disappointing in that regard, and if anything, the doctors created more questions for us than answers, and tainted that whole experience with so much negativity,” said Mcleod [1].

From Vanessa’s perspective, it felt as though the doctors were telling her it was all over. She and her husband were shocked when they suggested they terminate the pregnancy, saying that without arms and hands, the little girl would have no quality of life.

Vanessa asked her doctors about alternate solutions- War Amps, prosthetics, anything to give her some hope.

 

“The geneticist was quick to dismiss those options — she knew nothing about the War Amps, and she said prosthetics would never be an option, because she was missing both hands. I didn’t understand why.” [1]

Upon arriving at the hospital, Vanessa was hoping to have all her questions answered, but instead ended up adding to her already long list. She was scared, heartbroken, and unsure what to do.

Despite her fears, however, when she and her husband were left alone to decide how they wanted to move forward, her husband put all her fears to rest, at least for a moment.

“I’ll do whatever I have to do to take care of her,” he said to his wife. “I’ll build her anything. I want her. I’ll do whatever it takes. I’ll take care of her for the rest of her life.” [1]

Upper and Lower Limb Reduction Defects

The Mcleod family’s baby girl has what is referred to as “upper and lower limb reduction defects”, which occurs when part of or the entire arm (upper) or leg (lower) of a fetus does not form completely during pregnancy. It is given the term “reduction” because a limb is reduced from its normal size, or missing entirely [2].

Unfortunately, the cause of limb reduction defects is unknown, but research has shown that certain behaviours or exposures can increase the risk that they will happen, including:

• Exposure of the mother to certain chemicals or viruses while she is pregnant
• Exposure of the mother to certain medications
• Possible exposure of the mother to tobacco smoking (more research is needed) [2]

In some cases limb reduction defects can be associated with other birth defects such as heart defects, omphalocele (the intestines or other organs are stick outside the belly through the belly button [3], or gastroschisis (the baby’s intestines are outside of their body [4]) [2].

In the United States, around one in every 1900 babies are born with upper and lower limb defects. These babies and children will face a variety of difficulties depending on the location and type of reduction, which may include the following:

 

• Difficulties with normal development such as motor skills
• Needing assistance with daily activities such as self-care
• Limitations with certain movements, sports, or activities
• Potential emotional and social issues because of physical appearance [2]

“She is Going to Teach Us So Much”

Despite the doctor’s warnings about quality of life, Vanessa and her husband were steadfast in their decision to bring their baby girl with no arms into the world, and today they cannot imagine life without their giggly, beautiful girl Ivy.

After processing her grief, Vanessa’s whole perspective shifted and now believes that she was chosen to be Ivy’s mother. She knew that she would fight for her daughter, advocate for her, and above all else, love her.

She started to realize that perhaps it wasn’t Ivy who needed her, but her who needed Ivy.

 

“I need her because she completes me, completes my family, in ways I never realized. She’s a balm to my soul, a salve to past wounds. Ivy will teach me things I didn’t think I needed to know, or maybe didn’t want to know.” [1]

Since the day she was brought home from the hospital, little Ivy has been meeting all of her milestones on time. She is happy, healthy, and loved.

Both of her parents understand that their little girl is going to face struggles in her life that others don’t have to deal with. They are worried for the day when other kids point and stare, or say unkind things. They are afraid they won’t have the right words to comfort and encourage her during these struggles, and are hoping that they will be able to instill confidence in their daughter as she grows up.

Ready To Love

Despite this, Ivy’s family is ready to love her and support her in every way they can. They have already connected with the Lucky Fin Project, a network for parents around the world who have children with limb differences, as well as War Amps, and countless other kids and their parents living with limb differences.

As the family continues to connect with organizations and people to support their daughter, Vanessa’s goal is to normalize her daughter’s differences so that the world can become a more inclusive place. That some people have blue eyes, some have brown, some have blonde hair, some have red, and some have hands, and some don’t.

“I hope I can always impart to her that her life has meaning, has value, and will always be filled with so much love, regardless of her appearance or abilities,” said Vanessa. “It’s all about her. And she is absolutely, unequivocally, undeniably perfect.” [1]

As many of you now know, a massive tornado ripped through Dawson Springs, Kentucky. What you may not know is that Breeana Glisson and her children, by some sort of miracle, survived. This is their amazing story.

Breeana had heard the emergency sirens blaring on Friday night, so she gather up her daughter, who is only 2 years old, and her son, who is 4. The mother then retreated to her bed for the night, a more central part of the home.

Breeana then wrapped her arms around her children to keep them safe and waited for the storm to pass. When the tornado hit Breeana’s home, the massive force caused the roof to collapse which crushed the mother’s arm.

“And then, after that, in a millisecond, we were no longer in the bed or in our house,” the mother said. “We were on the ground all the way up there somewhere.”[1]

The Scenes After The Tornado Had Passed

When she opened her eyes and looked around, she had no idea as to where she was. All she could do was stand up and shout for help. She did her best to find someone who would help her and her children.

The mother’s arm had been broken in that incident. She had also suffered several injuries on her face and her head. Her house was completely destroyed by the tornado.

Somehow, her children were safe and suffered no serious injuries.

“It’s insane. I can’t believe that me and my kids are OK,” Breeana said. “I can’t believe that there’s no broken bones on my children. It’s crazy.”

She believes that being on the mattress saved their lives while they were flung across the air.

 “We weren’t just flying through the air, we were on the bed,” she said.

More Details About The Other Victims 

Breeana and her children were considered to be extremely lucky, but others did not have the same fate. As per Governor, Andy Beshear, the death toll was somewhere around 74, and this figure is expected to rise.

People all over the world have started to donate, to assist the victims of tornadoes.

Oaklynn Koon was only 2 months old and had passed away from her injuries, the day before.

Her family had asked the public to pray for their little daughter on Sunday, while she was still in the hospital. Her life support was later pulled out and the family confirmed her death on Monday.

De Andre Morrow was 28 years old and was amongst the 6 people, who were killed in the tornado which struck an Amazon warehouse in Edwardsville, Illinois.

His fiance, Chelsea Thomas, started an online appeal and mentioned how he wanted to become a “household name” through several business ventures. She stated, “He strived to make life better for his family, friends, and community.” A GoFundMe page was also started for Morrow and has currently raised more than $3,000.

Annistyn Rackley was only 9 years old and loved to dance and swim, as stated by her aunt, Sandra Hooker.

Annistyn, her two younger sisters, and her parents took shelter in a windowless bathroom on Friday, in their new home in Missouri. The girl’s mother texted a photo of the three girls smiling as they were in their “safe space”. Fifteen minutes later, the tornado struck their house and carried the family dozens of yards away, into a field. They were later found in the mud. Annistyn did not make it through but the others did so with severe injuries. [2]

We have heard stories about superheroes rescuing people from accidents or burning homes, but can you imagine it being your own dad?

Yes! You read it correctly, your father.

The story that we are going to tell you is about a superhero, better known as Ray Lucas, who rushed into a burning house to save his twins.

 

The Story About The Dad And The Burning House

Ray Lucas and his girlfriend, Shi’Ann Brown had gone to visit the corner store to pick up some milk, on the 17th of July, and were extremely panic-struck when they came back home. Their house in Michigan was engulfed in flames while his twin daughters were trapped inside.

Shi’Ann saw the scene and broke down. She kept panicking in the front yard in Eastpointe and was doing her best to ask for some assistance. Take a look at the interview:

Lucas, who is 23, told his story, “I was speechless. Action took over me. I ran into the house to get my babies. I’m looking at it as a father. I did anything that any other father would do or should do.“

The fire had spread through the three floors and had almost reached the basement where Malaysia and Milan were resting. The babies were in their cribs. Lucas added that he was not sure if the Fire Department would reach there in time and chose to take matters into his own hands.

 

Ray Lucas Jumped Into The Fire

Ray plunged into the burning house and realized that nothing was visible due to the flames. Thankfully, he knew his way around his house and headed straight to the basement.

He reached their cribs and touched his twins and was elated to see them respond to his contact.

One of the twins was lying down while the other was standing up in the crib, quietly. Ray believes that the girls were in shock because they were surrounded by fire and smoke.

Ray wasted no time and grabbed his children. He held his babies against his chest to protect them from the blaze and made his way up and outside. The smoke and fire were great obstacles but he could easily retrace his steps in the inferno.

The brave dad handed his daughters over to his mother and realized that his niece was also trapped in the house. Lucas ran back inside the house to look for her but found no signs of her. He ran straight to the backyard and saw her through the second-story window. Lucas ordered her to jump through the window and caught her with his bare hands.

 

“I was ecstatic my babies were OK and everybody was able to walk away from the situation. We didn’t lose anyone,” Lucas said.

 

The Brave Dad’s Heroism Had Its Toll

The dad and his twins suffered serious burns.

“My arms burned, both ears burned, right side of face burned, and my neck was burned,” Lucas said.

Lucas suffered from second and third-degree burns and had turned blind for three days. His corneas were completely damaged and had swelled up due to the high exposure to smoke.

Doctors told him that he might not get back his vision but, thankfully,  he has done so.

 

“My vision I feel is back to normal, it could be better.“

Lucas has regained his eyesight but his extreme burns have prevented him from performing day-to-day activities.

The twins, Malaysia and Milan had also sustained serious burns. They were taken to the Children’s Hospital of Michigan in Detroit and treated in the intensive care unit.

Milan suffered from second and third-degree burns on the back of her legs and also on her feet. Malaysia sustained second to third-degree burns on her eyes, arms, and cheeks. She needs to undergo exercise and physical training to get back the mobility in her arms and to loosen her joints.

Lucas and his twins had to spend 5 days in the ICU. The doctors told him that burns would go away in time as long as he took the right precautions.

Lucas was hurt physically because of the burns and stated that he is “mentally in pain with burns. It was a lot on me mentally. I’ve never been in a situation like that before.“

The Fire Has Cost Them Their Home And All Their Possessions

The family has lost their home and their possessions.

The cause of the fire is still being investigated. Lucas suspects that the foundation of the house was in ruins which is why it caught on fire.

“The house didn’t burn all the way down, but it’s a lost cause. Everyone’s possessions were gone from smoke damage or flames.“

The medical bills were quite expensive, additionally. Lucas and his family had moved to Detroit with his family and were still sorting out their living situation.

 

“It’s still not real to me… the situation is still so surreal to me,” Lucas said.

The community in Detroit has rallied to their cause and has created a GoFundMe page to help them rebuild their lives. The initial goal was set at $40,000. Currently, more than 8,000 people have donated to this cause which has raised more than $286,000.

Let us hope that Ray Lucas and his beautiful twins can rebuild their home again and get their normal lives back.

In a tragic event that has shaken a Texas community, one-year-old Jiryiah Johnson lost his life after a dog attack at his babysitter’s home in Converse, Texas. The babysitter, Heather Rodriguez, had left her daughter, a 13-year-old girl, in charge of watching Jiryiah while she went to work. Despite Rodriguez’s promise to stay and supervise the children, she left them alone with the family’s three pit bulls. An action that would have devastating consequences.

What Started as a game Turned Into a Vicious Dog Attack

As Jiryiah played inside the house, the situation quickly escalated when the pit bulls broke into the room where the baby was—initiating a savage and unprovoked attack. Despite the babysitter’s earlier assurances that the dogs were safe, this horrifying incident has drawn attention to the often unpredictable nature of these animals, particularly when left unsupervised around children.

Desperate Battle to Save the Baby

The true hero in this tragic story is the babysitter’s 13-year-old daughter, who bravely fought to save Jiryiah’s life. When the dogs attacked, the girl immediately sprang into action. She attempted to lift the child above her head to keep him out of the dogs’ reach. Unfortunately, the determined dogs, led by one particularly aggressive pit bull, managed to climb onto nearby furniture. They snatched Jiryiah from the teenager’s hands.

The attack then moved from room to room, with the young girl frantically trying to protect Jiryiah from further harm. According to Bexar County Sheriff Javier Salazar, the teen fought back fiercely. She engaged in what he described as a “tug-of-war” with the dog in an attempt to pull the baby away from its jaws. Despite her valiant efforts, the dogs overpowered her, and Jiryiah sustained critical injuries to his head, face, and throat​.

The Dogs’ Relentless Pursuit

In a last-ditch effort to protect Jiryiahfrom the dog attack, the teenager tried to escape with him into a bathroom. However, the pit bulls were relentless, breaking down the door and continuing their assault. Realizing the escalating danger, the girl reached for her phone to call for help but was unable to stop the brutal mauling in time. Despite her courage, the severity of Jiryiah’s injuries meant that he could not breathe on his own due to significant throat damage.

The teenager’s attempts to lock herself and Jiryiah in another room also proved futile. The dogs continued to break through barriers to reach their prey. “She made every effort possible, even lifting that baby over her head,” Sheriff Salazar stated in the Daily Mail. Acknowledging her bravery in such a terrifying situation. The relentless nature of the attack shocked both authorities and the local community.

Jiryiah’s Fatal Injuries

After the dog attack, Jiryiah was rushed to the hospital in critical condition with severe injuries to his neck, head, and face. Tragically, despite the best efforts of medical personnel, the damage to his throat made it impossible for him to breathe without assistance, and he passed away from his injuries later that evening. The toddler’s death has left his family devastated and seeking answers as to why such a preventable tragedy occurred.

Babysitter Charged After Horrific Attack

Following the attack, babysitter Heather Rodriguez was arrested and charged with injury to a child by omission. It was revealed that Rodriguez had a history of leaving children in potentially unsafe environments, despite knowing the risks posed by her aggressive dogs. The authorities are now investigating the possibility of further charges against Rodriguez and her teenage daughter, who, although hailed as a hero for her actions, was also left in charge of the children without proper supervision.

As the investigation continues, attention has shifted to the legal responsibility of pet owners and the safety risks posed by certain breeds of dogs. Especially pit bulls. The tragedy has reignited debates about the dangers of leaving children unsupervised around dogs known for their aggressive tendencies. With many calling for stricter regulations on dog ownership and more severe penalties for owners whose pets cause harm.

A Mother’s Grief After a Violent Dog Attack

Jiryiah’s mother, Erika Castro, is left reeling from the loss of her only child. “I’ve been shaking, I’ve been having panic attacks,” Castro said in a tearful statement. She expressed deep regret that Rodriguez did not stay as promised, saying, “I wish she’d stayed like she said she would’ve. Instead of going into work.” Castro is struggling to come to terms with the unimaginable grief of losing her son in such a violent and horrific manner.

Community Rallies in Support

In the wake of this tragedy, the local community has rallied to support Jiryiah’s grieving family. A GoFundMe page has been set up to help cover the expenses of Jiryiah’s funeral and memorial. Messages of condolences have poured in from people shocked and heartbroken by the news. Many in the community are now questioning the safety of children being left in homes where aggressive animals are present, raising concerns about the responsibility of pet owners to prevent such incidents.

An Urgent Call for Action

The death of Jiryiah Johnson serves as a grim reminder of the importance of pet owner responsibility and child safety. Authorities are now urging parents and caregivers to carefully evaluate the risks posed by leaving children unsupervised in homes with large or potentially dangerous pets. The Bexar County Sheriff’s Office has also called for increased awareness of the responsibilities that come with owning breeds known for aggressive tendencies. Such as pit bulls. As well as stricter enforcement of animal control regulations​.

A Lasting Impact on the Community of Converse, Texas

This tragic dog attack has left a lasting impact on the community of Converse, Texas, and beyond. As people come to terms with the preventable loss of a young life. Jiryiah’s story will undoubtedly spark further discussions on how to protect vulnerable children from similar tragedies in the future.

In a distressing incident that has shocked the nation of Brazil and drawn international attention, a grieving family experienced an unimaginable ordeal. Their eight-month-old daughter, Kiara Crislayne de Moura dos Santos, was pronounced dead not once but twice within a single day. Following the initial declaration of her death, the heartbroken family began funeral arrangements.

However, during the somber ceremony, mourners were shocked to notice subtle movements in Kiara’s coffin. This forced them to stop the proceedings and attempt a desperate rescue. This tragic sequence of events has led to an investigation into the medical procedures of Faustino Riscarolli Hospital in Correia Pinto, where Kiara was initially declared dead.

A Somber Farewell Turns Into a Scene of Panic

On October 19, Kiara’s family and friends gathered to bid farewell to the infant girl. She had been pronounced dead in the early hours at Faustino Riscarolli Hospital in Santa Catarina, Brazil. The devastating loss had cast a heavy shadow over the family. Who rightfully struggled to come to terms with the tragic event. But just as the service was underway, a mourner noticed the unthinkable—a faint movement of Kiara’s hand inside her open coffin.

This subtle motion abruptly halted the funeral

Attendees scrambled in disbelief, hoping they were witnessing a miracle. “We were in shock,” recounted one of the mourners. “Nobody could believe what they were seeing.” With urgency, one attendee touched her hand, and to their astonishment, Kiara’s tiny fingers curled around theirs. This ignited a spark of hope amid the grief.

A Frenzied Dash to Save Kiara’s Life

Immediately after the discovery, friends and family called for emergency services in a frantic bid to revive Kiara. Firefighter paramedics arrived swiftly, and upon closer examination, they detected a faint pulse. This revelation caused a wave of hope and relief to surge through those gathered. “It was as if a piece of her spirit had returned to give us hope,” shared Kiara’s father, Cristiano Santos.

Paramedics quickly assessed her oxygen saturation

They noted it was dangerously low at just 84 percent, well below the 90 percent threshold that typically indicates severe health risks. The paramedics didn’t hesitate. They immediately rushed her back to Faustino Riscarolli Hospital, determined to give her every possible chance at life.

A Second Tragic Pronouncement of Death

Despite the fleeting hope brought by this extraordinary moment, the reprieve proved tragically short-lived. After arriving at the hospital, Kiara’s vital signs faded again, and doctors were forced to pronounce her dead for a second time. The repeated tragedy plunged her parents, who had already been overwhelmed with grief, into profound despair.

“We were devastated already. Then there came a little bit of hope, but then this ended up happening,” her father, Cristiano, conveyed. His voice filled with sorrow. For the family, the whiplash of emotions—from crushing loss to fleeting hope and back again—was nothing short of agonizing.

Hospital Under Investigation Amid Public Outcry

Following these alarming events, an investigation into Faustino Riscarolli Hospital is now underway, spearheaded by Brazil’s Scientific Police. The primary focus is on the hospital’s initial pronouncement, as there are significant questions regarding the protocols and medical procedures that led to the premature declaration of Kiara’s death.

Hospital Feedback

Hospital representatives confirmed that the baby girl had arrived in critical condition on the morning of October 19 and was quickly declared dead after showing no vital signs. However, the fact that she later displayed signs of life at her own funeral has cast doubt on the reliability of the hospital’s assessment. Public outcry has been intense. Many demanded accountability and answers to how this could happen in a modern medical facility.

Official Apology and Promises of a Thorough Review

In response to the tragedy, Correia Pinto’s City Hall released an official statement, expressing deep regret for the suffering endured by Kiara’s family and assuring the public of a full review of the circumstances surrounding the incident. The municipality has pledged to conduct a comprehensive investigation, with a report expected within 30 days. “The Municipality of Correia Pinto reiterates its commitment to provide the best care for all citizens,” stated a spokesperson.

“Under no circumstances can any professional issue certificates or statements without proper authentication of the patient’s condition. All health professionals are constantly oriented and trained, ensuring that people’s lives and well-being are always the priority.” The spokesperson further emphasized the city’s commitment to upholding the highest standards of care and pledged to strengthen the guidelines that dictate death verification practices.

A Family Torn by Unanswered Questions and Lingering Trauma

As the investigation unfolds, many questions remain about the protocols and standards applied by Faustino Riscarolli Hospital and whether more thorough procedures could have prevented such a harrowing experience. For Kiara’s family, these questions weigh heavily. Not only have they been forced to confront the devastating reality of their loss, but they must also grapple with the trauma of nearly experiencing hope amid unimaginable despair. Support for the family has poured in from across the country. Community members expressed outrage over the apparent procedural lapses.

While there has been no indication yet of whether the family plans to pursue legal action against the hospital, the incident has spurred discussions about how hospitals approach the verification of death, especially in cases involving young children or complex medical situations.

A Grief Shared by a Community

Kiara’s story has left a lasting impact on the community, with many reflecting on the fragility of life and the importance of accountability within medical institutions. As the family begins the painful process of grieving, they are not alone in their sorrow. The entire community is reeling from the profound loss and the tragic series of events that ensued. For Kiara’s parents, the sorrow will persist long after the investigation concludes as they navigate a future shadowed by grief and unanswered questions about what might have been.

In a heart-wrenching tragedy at Niagara Falls, 33-year-old Chianti Means and her two young children, Roman Rossman and Mecca Means, died after jumping from Luna Island, a popular viewing point at the iconic falls. Investigators believe the incident, which took place on Monday night, was intentional and continues to spark deep sorrow and reflection within the community and beyond.

The Scene of the Tragedy

Luna Island, a scenic overlook nestled between the American Niagara Falls and Bridal Veil Falls, attracts millions of tourists annually. Known for its breathtaking views and powerful cascades, the site also has a haunting reputation due to the high drop-off and minimal protective barriers. On Monday night, authorities received a call reporting that a woman and her children had gone over the railing and into the churning waters below.

The victims were identified as Chianti Means, her nine-year-old son, Roman, and her five-month-old daughter, Mecca. According to her LinkedIn profile, Means worked as a domestic violence counselor and was a resident of Niagara Falls, New York. Loved ones describe her as a devoted mother who was quietly battling her own struggles.

A Mother’s Silent Struggle with Mental Health

As details emerged, friends and family took to social media to express their disbelief and grief. Many speculated that postpartum depression might have played a significant role in the incident. A cousin, Bierra Hamilton, stated that Means was not motivated by relationship issues, as some had speculated, but by “a silent battle with postpartum depression,” underscoring the devastating reality of this condition.

As news of the event at Niagara Falls spread, tributes began pouring in from friends and acquaintances on social media. “I can’t even bear to write a post about her… Just know she and her children are dearly loved by me and my children,” said one friend, capturing the collective heartbreak that many are experiencing. “Mental health is no joke,” another post read, highlighting the struggle Means likely faced.

This incident is a stark reminder of other heartbreaking cases. In February 2023, another mother jumped with her five-year-old son from a cliff into the Niagara Falls Gorge, resulting in her death. Her son, however, survived. The pattern of such tragedies underlines the need for greater mental health awareness and resources.

The Ongoing Investigation

Police confirmed that they believe the incident was intentional, yet specific details surrounding the circumstances are still under investigation. Authorities are employing drones and underwater search units to locate the bodies of Means and her children, though challenging conditions in the turbulent waters have hindered recovery efforts so far.

The incident has stirred conversations about mental health, especially regarding postpartum depression, a condition that can deeply affect new mothers. Many in the community have expressed hope that this tragedy will lead to increased awareness and accessible mental health support for those silently suffering.

As the investigation continues, the deaths of Chianti Means and her children at Niagara Falls serve as a tragic reminder of the unseen battles that many face and a call for compassion and understanding.