This Retired ‘McMillan & Wife’ Star Suffered the Tragic Death of Her 14-Year-Old Son — Photos of How She Looks in Recent Years

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The “McMillan & Wife” star | Source: Getty Images

A former television star who once lit up screens in hit shows faced unimaginable tragedy with the loss of her teenage son. Now living a quieter life as a grandmother, fans are still captivated by her grace and beauty. See how this beloved actress has changed over the years.

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This actress was a familiar face on television for decades, earning recognition for her talent and charm. As a young woman, she relocated to Los Angeles with dreams of becoming an actress.

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In pursuit of this goal, she lived at the Hollywood Studio Club, a residence for aspiring female entertainers, and it didn’t take long for her to make her mark. The facility had a sterling reputation for nurturing talent, once housing icons like Grace Kelly.

With her mother’s approval, the Hollywood star started taking acting lessons to hone her craft. However, it wasn’t long before she realized that dedicating endless time to acting classes could lead to stagnation.

The famous actress circa 1971. | Source: Getty Images

The famous actress circa 1971. | Source: Getty Images

She decided to start working and earning a living, setting her apart from many hopefuls who often spent years waiting for their big break. Her determination paid off as she began landing roles on television, eventually becoming one of the most recognizable actresses of her time.

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The actress filming "McMillan & Wife" in 1972. | Source: Getty Images

The actress filming “McMillan & Wife” in 1972. | Source: Getty Images

During the 1960s, 1970s, and 1980s, she became widely known for her roles in some of the most popular TV shows of the era. Her most famous roles were in the detective series “McMillan & Wife,” where she played the witty and lovable Sally McMillan.

She also starred in the sitcom “Kate & Allie,” in which she charmed viewers with her portrayal of a single mother navigating life with her best friend.

The Hollywood star filming "Kate & Allie" in 1985. | Source: Getty Images

The Hollywood star filming “Kate & Allie” in 1985. | Source: Getty Images

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Despite the star’s success in Hollywood, she made a life-changing decision to step back from acting to focus on her family. After “Kate & Allie” ended, she embraced motherhood fully, devoting herself to raising her five children.

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Reflecting on those years, she fondly recalled the joy she found in parenting, noting that each stage of her children’s development — from diapers to teaching them how to ride a bike — was more fulfilling than anything her career could offer.

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“Every time I thought about going back to work, I thought, ‘It can’t be as much fun as this,'” she admitted. The actress’s personal life also includes a long and successful marriage to television executive Dick Ebersol, whom she married in 1981.

The famous actress and Dick Ebersol photographed in New York, circa 1970. | Source: Getty Images

The famous actress and Dick Ebersol photographed in New York, circa 1970. | Source: Getty Images

The two built a strong partnership that withstood the demands of the entertainment industry. While her husband was often busy with his career — most notably his work with the Olympic Games — their relationship thrived through mutual understanding and dedication. As of 2024, the couple has celebrated 42 years of marriage.

The Hollywood star and Dick Ebersol during Senator Joe Kennedy's fundraiser on December 1, 1988, in New York. | Source: Getty Images

The Hollywood star and Dick Ebersol during Senator Joe Kennedy’s fundraiser on December 1, 1988, in New York. | Source: Getty Images

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However, despite the actress’s successful career and family life, tragedy struck in November 2004, when one of her sons, 14-year-old Edward “Teddy” Ebersol, was killed in a plane crash. The charter he had boarded crashed at an airport in southwestern Colorado.

After an extensive search, his body was discovered pinned beneath the wreckage of the aircraft. “I’m not going to discuss the condition of the body out of respect for the family,” Montrose County Coroner Mark Young said during a news conference.

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Following this devastating loss, the famous actress chose to honor her son’s memory in a personal and meaningful way. “My son Teddy, who passed away, had so many sayings. I have some of them as tattoos on my arm. He had one that was, ‘Life is a blur, love is the focus.’ That was Teddy. I love that,” she revealed.

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Despite the heartbreak, the Hollywood star remained resilient, finding solace in her other children, who brought joy and comfort during such a difficult time. As of 2021, she had become a grandmother to seven grandchildren.

In the years following her son’s death, the actress retired from acting, deciding to focus on her family and lead a much simpler life. Now living a quiet life with her husband, she splits her time between their large home in Connecticut and a more relaxing retreat in Hawaii.

The famous actress shooting "The Girls in the Office" in 1979. | Source: Getty Images

The famous actress shooting “The Girls in the Office” in 1979. | Source: Getty Images

The retired star described how her life in Hawaii is filled with long walks and easygoing days, a stark contrast to the hustle and bustle of her earlier years.

The former “McMillan & Wife” star reflected, “Our menu is simple, our life is simple, and it’s really relaxing and nice. We’re just going through life together. I get to enjoy my seven grandkids, so I’m really busy, but I love it.”

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A portrait of the Hollywood star filming "Love at First Bite" in 1979. | Source: Getty Images

A portrait of the Hollywood star filming “Love at First Bite” in 1979. | Source: Getty Images

This actress is none other than Susan Saint James, 78. Though she stepped away from Hollywood years ago, her legacy and timeless beauty still captivate fans. See her transformation over the decades and how this legendary star has evolved from the 1970s to today.

Susan Saint James at the premiere of "The China Syndrome" on March 6, 1979, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

Susan Saint James at the premiere of “The China Syndrome” on March 6, 1979, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

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’70s

Susan Saint James and Rock Hudson during a promotional photoshoot for "McMillan & Wife" in 1974. | Source: Getty Images

Susan Saint James and Rock Hudson during a promotional photoshoot for “McMillan & Wife” in 1974. | Source: Getty Images

Susan Saint James on the set of "SOS Titanic" in 1979.  | Source: Getty Images

Susan Saint James on the set of “SOS Titanic” in 1979. | Source: Getty Images

’80s

Susan Saint James during a promotional photoshoot for "Saturday Night Live" in 1983.  | Source: Getty Images

Susan Saint James during a promotional photoshoot for “Saturday Night Live” in 1983. | Source: Getty Images

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Susan Saint James at the Third Annual Night of 100 Trees Gala to Benefit the New York Special Olympics on December 18, 1984, in New York. | Source: Getty Images

Susan Saint James at the Third Annual Night of 100 Trees Gala to Benefit the New York Special Olympics on December 18, 1984, in New York. | Source: Getty Images

2000s

Susan Saint James during the "Mean Girls" New York premiere on April 23, 2004. | Source: Getty Images

Susan Saint James during the “Mean Girls” New York premiere on April 23, 2004. | Source: Getty Images

Susan Saint James photographed on May 31, 2006. | Source: Getty Images

Susan Saint James photographed on May 31, 2006. | Source: Getty Images

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2010s

Susan Saint James at Charlie Ebersol's "Charlieland" birthday party and charity event on December 8, 2012, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

Susan Saint James at Charlie Ebersol’s “Charlieland” birthday party and charity event on December 8, 2012, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

Susan Saint James at the "Suffragette" New York premiere on October 12, 2015.  | Source: Getty Images

Susan Saint James at the “Suffragette” New York premiere on October 12, 2015. | Source: Getty Images

2020s

Although Saint James retired from acting, the former “McMillan & Wife” star hasn’t completely been out of the public eye. In 2022, social media users commented on how stunning the former Hollywood star still looks, with many praising her for aging gracefully and maintaining her signature elegance.

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“Still stunning after all these years 😍😍😍,” one person commented. “You look great! The hair cut [sic] looks beautiful,” another person shared. A third social media user added, “You look amazing!! Miss this face.”

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Susan Saint James may have left the spotlight behind, but her impact on television and her enduring grace continue to resonate with fans. From her rise to stardom to her strength, she remains an inspiring figure in the face of personal tragedy. As she enjoys a quieter life, her legacy as a Hollywood icon lives on.

My MIL Insisted on Being Present for My Home Birth — But Then She Slipped Out of the Room, and I Heard Strange Voices Outside

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My mother-in-law insisted on helping with my home birth, but something felt terribly wrong as she kept slipping out. The moment she left the room again, I heard unsettling voices outside. When I saw what it was, I froze.

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The moment I told Josh I wanted a home birth, his eyes lit up like a kid on Christmas morning. But it was nothing compared to the reaction we got from his mother, Elizabeth. You’d think we’d just handed her the keys to a brand-new car.

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A pregnant couple sitting on a wooden bench | Source: Unsplash

“Oh, Nancy! This is wonderful news!” Elizabeth gushed, clasping her hands together. “I simply must be there to support you both. I can help with anything you need!”

I exchanged a glance with Josh, my eyebrows raised. His shrug told me he was leaving this one up to me.

“I don’t know, Elizabeth,” I said, my voice hesitant. “It’s going to be pretty intense.”

She waved off my concerns. “Nonsense! I’ve been through it myself, dear. I know exactly what you’ll need.”

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I bit my lip, mulling it over. Maybe an extra pair of hands wouldn’t be so bad, right? And it would mean a lot to Josh if I invited his mother to help me with our home birth.

“Alright,” I finally conceded. “You can be there.”

Elizabeth’s squeal of delight was so high-pitched, I swear she could’ve scared the neighborhood dogs.

“You won’t regret this, Nancy,” she said, pulling me into a tight hug. “I promise I’ll be the best support you could ask for.”

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A young lady looking up | Source: Midjourney

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The big day finally arrived. Our midwife, Rosie, was setting up her equipment when Elizabeth burst through the door, her arms laden with bags.

“I’m here!” she announced, as if we might have missed her entrance. “Where do you need me?”

I was about to answer when a contraction hit, stealing my breath. Josh was at my side in an instant, his hand on my lower back as I tensed and groaned.

“Just… just put your things down for now,” I managed to gasp out.

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A pregnant woman lying down as her partner kisses her | Source: Pexels

As the contraction eased, I noticed Elizabeth fidgeting with something, her eyes darting around the room. She looked more nervous than excited now. And I knew that something was seriously off.

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“Are you okay?” I asked, frowning.

She turned around, startled. “What? Oh, yes! Just thinking about what I can do to help. You’re doing just fine, honey. Just keep pushing.”

Before I could press further, she was out the door, muttering something about getting me some water.

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A senior woman crossing her arms | Source: Pexels

Josh squeezed my hand. “Want me to talk to her?”

I shook my head. “No, it’s fine. She’s probably just nervous. It’s our first baby, right?”

As my labor progressed, Elizabeth’s behavior became increasingly odd. She’d pop in, ask how I was doing, then disappear again. Each time she returned, she seemed more flustered.

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During a particularly intense contraction, I gripped Josh’s hand so hard I thought I might break it. As the pain ebbed, I became aware of a strange sound.

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Grayscale shot of a couple holding hands | Source: Unsplash

“Josh,” I panted, “do you hear that?”

He cocked his head and listened. “Sounds like… voices?”

I nodded, relieved I wasn’t imagining things. “And is that music?”

Josh’s brow furrowed. He kissed my forehead and turned around. “I’ll check it out. Be right back.”

As he left, Rosie gave me an encouraging smile. “You’re doing great, Nancy. Not long now.”

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A man looking somewhere | Source: Midjourney

When Josh returned, his face was ashen as though he’d seen a ghost.

“What is it?” I asked, dreading the answer.

He ran a hand through his hair, looking pained. “You’re not going to believe this. My mother is throwing a party. In our living room.”

I stared at him, certain I’d misheard. “A what?”

“A party,” he repeated, his voice edged with frustration. “There are at least a dozen people out there.”

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A startled woman’s eyes | Source: Midjourney

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The pain of labor was nothing compared to the rage that coursed through me. I struggled to my feet, ignoring my midwife’s protests.

“Nancy, you shouldn’t—”

“I need to see this for myself,” I growled.

Josh supported me as we made our way to the living room. The scene that greeted us was surreal. People were mingling, drinks in hand, as if this were a casual Sunday barbecue.

A banner hanging on the wall read: “WELCOME BABY!”

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A banner at a party | Source: Midjourney

Elizabeth stood in the center of it all, holding court with a group of women I’d never seen before. She hadn’t even noticed our arrival.

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“What the hell is going on here?” I bellowed, my voice cutting through the chatter like a knife.

The room fell silent, all eyes turning to us. Elizabeth spun around, her face paling as she saw me.

“Nancy! Holy Christ! What are you doing here? You’re supposed to—”

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A shocked woman | Source: Midjourney

“Elizabeth, what’s going on over here?”

“Oh, I… we were just…”

“Just what? Turning my home birth into an exhibition?”

Elizabeth had the audacity to look offended. “Now, Nancy, don’t be dramatic. We’re just celebrating!”

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“Celebrating? I’m in labor, Elizabeth! This isn’t a damn social event!”

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A smiling senior woman in a black suit | Source: Pexels

She waved a dismissive hand. “Oh, you wouldn’t even know we were here! I thought you’d appreciate the support.”

I felt a contraction building and gritted my teeth against the pain and anger. “Support? This isn’t support. This is a circus!”

Josh stepped forward, his voice low and dangerous. “Everyone needs to leave. Now.”

As people scrambled to gather their things, Elizabeth tried one last time. “Nancy, you’re overreacting. This is a joyous occasion!”

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A distressed woman holding her face | Source: Midjourney

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I rounded on her, my words clipped and cold. “This is my home birth. My moment. If you can’t respect that, you can leave too.”

Without waiting for a response, I turned and waddled back to the bedroom to finish what I started, leaving Josh to deal with the aftermath.

Hours later, as I held my newborn son in my arms, the earlier drama felt like a distant nightmare. Josh sat beside us, his eyes full of wonder as he stroked our baby’s cheek.

“He’s perfect!” he whispered.

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A newborn baby | Source: Unsplash

I nodded, too overwhelmed for words. We sat in comfortable silence until a soft knock at the door broke the spell.

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Elizabeth peeked in, her eyes red-rimmed. “Can I… can I come in?”

I felt my jaw clench. “No!”

Elizabeth’s face crumpled. “Please, Nancy. I’m so sorry. I just want to see the baby.”

I looked at Josh, conflicted. He squeezed my hand gently, his eyes understanding but pleading.

“Fine. Five minutes.”

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A person holding a newborn baby | Source: Unsplash

Elizabeth entered slowly, as if afraid I might change my mind. Her face was pale and drawn as she approached the bed.

“Nancy, I’m so sorry. I don’t know what I was thinking. I just got so excited and carried away.”

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I didn’t respond and just stared at her stonily. Josh cleared his throat. “Would you like to see your grandson, Mom?”

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A man holding a newborn baby | Source: Unsplash

Elizabeth nodded, tears spilling down her cheeks as Josh carefully transferred our son into her arms. As she cradled him, her entire demeanor changed. The party-planning whirlwind was gone, replaced by a gentle, awe-struck grandmother.

After a few minutes, I spoke up. “It’s time for him to feed.”

Elizabeth nodded, reluctantly handing the baby back to me. She lingered for a moment at the door. “Thank you for letting me see him,” she said softly before leaving.

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Grayscale image of a woman carrying a newborn baby | Source: Unsplash

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As the door closed behind her, Josh turned to me. “Are you okay?”

I shook my head. “No. What she did… I can’t just forgive and forget, Josh.”

He nodded, pulling me close. “I understand. We’ll figure it out together.”

In the weeks that followed, I wrestled with how to move forward. Part of me wanted to exclude Elizabeth from our son’s first celebration as petty revenge for her home birth hijinks.

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A party table with flower arrangements | Source: Pexels

I was still angry and hurt, and it was making it hard to even consider including her.

But as I watched her dote on our baby during her visits, always respectful of our space and routines, I realized there was a better way.

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When it was time to organize the baby’s first party, I picked up the phone and called her.

“Elizabeth? It’s Nancy. I was hoping you could help with the preparations for the baby’s party next weekend.”

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A woman talking on the phone | Source: Pexels

The silence on the other end was deafening. Finally, she spoke. “You want my help? After what I did?”

“Yes. Because this is what family does. We forgive, we learn, and we move forward together.”

I could hear the tears in her voice as she replied, “Oh, Nancy. Thank you. I promise I won’t let you down.”

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A smiling senior woman talking on the phone | Source: Pexels

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True to her word, Elizabeth was a model of restraint and support during the party. She helped quietly in the background, beaming with pride as we introduced our son to our friends and family.

As the last guest left, she approached me, her eyes glistening. “Thank you for letting me be part of this, Nancy. I see now that this is how you celebrate. With love and respect.”

I smiled, feeling the barriers between us crumble. “That’s exactly right, Elizabeth. Welcome to the family!”

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A smiling young woman | Source: Midjourney

Here’s another story: My husband set poison traps for the raccoons that raided our trash cans. What they pulled from the trash one night left me frozen and in tears.

What Does Meghan Markle’s ‘Inappropriate’ Red Dress Have in Common with Princess Catherine’s White Gown?

Royal fashion choices often spark debate, and Meghan Markle’s latest appearance at a charity event is no exception. While some praised her bold style, others found it controversial. What many may not realize, though, is how this fashion moment connects her to Princess Catherine in an unexpected way.

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Meghan Markle made a stunning entrance at a children’s charity gala, dressed in an eye-catching red gown. The sleek dress, designed with thin straps and a daring plunging neckline, hugged her figure, highlighting her refined style.

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Meghan Markle on October 05, 2024, in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

The “Suits” alum paired the gown with matching red open-toe heels that complemented the outfit perfectly. Meghan kept her makeup minimal, allowing her natural glow to take center stage, and styled her hair in loose, flowing waves.

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Meghan Markle on October 05, 2024, in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

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Although her appearance was elegant, her choice of attire sparked a heated debate among online commenters. Several social media users expressed their disapproval of Meghan’s dress.

One user commented, “If I was a person sponsoring this event, I would have escorted her out of this function, which is supporting children , wearing a dress like that. How inappropriate [sic].”

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Meghan Markle on October 05, 2024, in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

Another wrote, “Did she come straight from the beach [?]” echoing the sentiment that her outfit seemed out of place for a children’s charity event. Others continued to criticize the appropriateness of the dress, with one user remarking, “Not an appropriate dress at a children’s event [sic].”

Meghan Markle, Duchess of Sussex, and Paul S. Viviano on October 05, 2024, in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

Meghan Markle, Duchess of Sussex, and Paul S. Viviano on October 05, 2024, in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

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“To children’s gala. Very revealing dress. To children’s gala [sic],” noted yet another netizen. The reactions didn’t stop there, as another disgruntled individual added, “Nothing right about that!!!!! For a visit to a children’s event – I don’t think so. That dress was bad enough the first time!!!!!”

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Meghan Markle on October 5, 2024, in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

The Surprising Link Between Meghan and Catherine’s Dresses

Meghan’s choice of outfit may have caused a stir, but there’s something interestingly common between her red dress and Princess Catherine’s white gown. Despite the stark differences in the events they attended, both outfits have managed to capture widespread attention and become talking points for royal fashion enthusiasts.

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Kate, 42, known for her sustainable fashion choices, made headlines for a very different reason when she recycled her white Alexander McQueen gown at the 2023 BAFTA Awards. The Princess of Wales first wore the stunning gown in 2019 to the same event.

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Princess Catherine on February 10, 2019, in London, England | Source: Getty Images

The dress, cut from white silk chiffon, featured a one-shoulder design with Grecian drapes, transforming her into an ethereal vision as she walked the red carpet alongside her husband, Prince William.

In 2019, the gown was adorned with floral embellishments on the shoulder and accessorized with a white clutch and silver heels. The outfit was celebrated for its elegance, inspiring many bridal fashion ideas.

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Prince William and Princess Catherine on February 10, 2019, in London, England | Source: Getty Images

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However, in 2023, Catherine brought the gown back with a refreshed and modern twist. She removed the floral embellishments and added a flowing fabric pinned to the shoulder, giving the dress a sleeker and more sophisticated look.

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Prince William and Princess Catherine on February 19, 2023, in London, England | Source: Getty Images

In addition to updating the dress, Catherine introduced bold new accessories, such as black velvet gloves, which created a striking contrast to the white silk. To complete her look, she wore gold sequin Aquazzura Fenix pumps and oversized floral earrings from Zara, mixing high fashion with affordable accessories.

Catherine’s decision to recycle the Alexander McQueen gown emphasizes her commitment to sustainability in fashion, as she has often been praised for re-wearing outfits at public events. This practice not only reflects her eco-conscious mindset but also reinforces the timeless appeal of the dress.

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Princess Catherine on February 19, 2023, in London, England | Source: Getty Images

Meghan Markle Follows the Eco-Friendly Trend

Interestingly, Meghan, 43, has also embraced the eco-friendly trend, similar to Princess Catherine. At the recent Children’s Hospital Los Angeles Gala on October 5, 2024, Meghan opted to recycle the red Carolina Herrera gown she previously wore in 2021.

The Duchess of Sussex had originally worn the stunning gown at the Salute to Freedom Gala in New York City, which honored veterans at the Intrepid Museum.

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Prince Harry and Meghan Markle on November 10, 2021, in New York City | Source: Getty Images

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The gown, designed with a deep plunging neckline and a front slit, was a bold choice, much like her appearance at the children’s event. In 2021, Meghan wore the same gown with a sweeping red train, paired with red heels by Giuseppe Zanotti. She and Prince Harry also wore red poppies, a symbol of remembrance for military members who lost their lives in war.

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Prince Harry and Meghan Markle on November 10, 2021, in New York City | Source: Getty Images

However, at the CHLA Gala, Meghan’s look was slightly updated—this time, the dramatic train was missing, creating a more streamlined appearance. Despite the absence of the train, the former actress still looked stunning as she posed for photos on the red carpet, wearing red strappy heels and a beaming smile.